I’m Bec—holistic sleep coach, IBCLC & your calm in the chaos of early parenthood.
If you're overwhelmed by baby sleep advice and second-guessing your instincts—you’re in the right place. With 15+ years as a midwife, lactation consultant and holistic sleep coach, I support families with responsive, evidence-based care that actually feels good.
Gentle
The Sleep Collective
Feeling overwhelmed? You don’t have to figure it all out alone.
Motherhood is full of moments that make you pause and think, “Is this normal? Am I doing this right?”
I’m here to tell you: you’re not broken. Your baby’s not broken. And you’re not alone.
As a holistic sleep coach, IBCLC, midwife and Circle of Security facilitator. I’ve spent over 15 years walking alongside families in those raw, blurry early years. And I’ve seen just how confusing, overwhelming, and noisy the world of baby sleep and feeding advice can be.
I offer support that’s responsive, evidence-based, and built on connection. No cry-it-out. No rigid schedules. Just real-life strategies that meet your baby’s biological needs—and honour your instincts as a parent.
Let’s quiet the noise, drown out the doubt, and help you feel confident again.
I offer support that’s responsive, evidence-based, and built on connection. No cry-it-out. No rigid schedules. Just real-life strategies that meet your baby’s biological needs—and honour your instincts as a parent.
That’s why I do things differently.
Circle of Security facilitator
Understanding your child’s emotional needs changes everything.
This research-backed approach helps you respond to big feelings with confidence, connection, and calm—so your child feels safe, and you feel steady.
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Infant feeding specialist
Feeding and sleep are deeply connected.
As an IBCLC, I support you with expert, compassionate care—whether you’re breastfeeding, bottle-feeding, combo feeding, or figuring it out as you go.
HSC Level 6 – Holistic Sleep Coach
Sleep is never just about sleep.
That’s why I trained to the highest level available in the field—an OCN Level 6 qualification in Holistic Sleep Coaching.
This means I’m trained to look beyond the surface—because sleep doesn’t exist in a silo.
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“Rebecca’s advice was a breath of fresh air. I felt reassured, confident, and able to make gentle changes without ignoring my baby’s needs.” - Madelaine
I created The Gentle Sleep Collective to give parents the kind of support I wish I had: evidence-based, attachment-focused, and genuinely compassionate. My work brings together sleep science, infant feeding, emotional development, and your real life—as it actually is.
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